Love is described as a magical feeling that homes your heart. You grew up reading love stories; watching romantic movies; seeing inseparable couples having the time of their lives in the parks and you always wondered if you would also love someone someday. So you did fall in love and there’s no way to undo it. Not everyone who loves, is happy.
People get cheated by their lovers or some go through break ups and some end up attending the weddings of their lovers.
1. Determine to get over.
No one, in the whole world, can help you if you don’t want to be helped so the first lesson that you need to give to yourself is that determine to get over it.
2. Do not run from the facts.Face them.
The more you run, the faster it chases you. Try to admit to yourself if it’s your mistake. If it is not your mistake then you don’t deserve the punishment for the crime you’ve not committed. No one has the power to make you sad unless you allow.
3. Be logical.
It’s not easy to think logically when it’s about relationships and emotions. They just chain you and leave you with no logic. Remind yourself that love is just the part of the life, it’s not life so you can always move on. It seems impossible to move on at the moment but time lessens the pain for sure.
Today you’re thinking how unfair your life is; tomorrow you’ll be thankful to it.
4. This is not the end.
This indeed is not the end. There are many things that you need to focus on. Learn things; develop yourself; be better than yourself.
5. Don’t consider yourself a victim.
Most of the people consider themselves victims and cling to the sadness for a long time. We all are victims of circumstances. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Give yourself the respect that others haven’t given to you.
6. Fall in love with yourself.
This is the right time for you to fall in love with yourself on purpose. Somebody broke your heart; somebody cheated you; somebody didn’t care about your feelings, so it’s the time when you need yourself the most. Spend time doing things for yourself. Go out for shopping or make yourself a delicious meal. Give yourself the love you’ve been expecting others to give.
7. Do not think.
Most of the problems are the outcome of thinking or over thinking to be more specific.
You start to imagine your lover with someone else and then something indescribable hurts your chest. You start to think about the future you already planned with your lover. It’s better to avoid thinking by keeping yourself busy in one way or the other.
8. Now is not the time to think about the replacement.
The second thing that comes to your mind is that ‘ will you ever be able to replace your ex with someone?’
Questions like these can only be answered by time so leave it on time.